Here's how I came to write this blog... I did a google search and here were a few of my results:
1) Christmas Crafts for kids
2) What to get a teenage boy for Christmas
3) Christmas gifts for teenagers
4) Christmas Printables
5) Christmas Party Games
What I really wanted was for some other, really smart moms out there in cyberspace to tell me how to keep my teenage son interested in spending time with his family at Christmas rather than becoming detached and bored with the festivities, or self-centered and focused on materialism. Since I guess no one out there figured it out, I'm going to have to get creative and come up with something.
Now, keep in mind, my son is 15. He's never liked crafts. Although I did find an ornament idea a couple years ago that involved drilling a hole in a piece of wood. That part seemed to interest him, but scissors and glue and glitter and crayons... forget it.
My best friends sons seem to have a bit more fun getting creative, but at 13 years old, they too, are getting a bit past the hand print turkeys and peanut butter pine cones. So I'm brainstorming ideas for things they can do this Christmas that will be truly memorable and enjoyable for them.
Here's what I've come up with so far
1) Hanging lights - I know some more protective parents might cringe at the thought of 13-15 year olds wielding staple guns while climbing on the roof. I think they're quite capable, and ours are certainly tall enough. I think letting them put up the lights and design the yard decor will give them a sense of accomplishment while encouraging their independence in a positive way. My husband certainly doesn't like doing it, and I'm not overly fond of heights... so I think while the younger kids are applying pom-poms to Popsicle sticks these young men can be wiring the front yard with electricity.
2) Setting up the Christmas tree - Last year my son grew tired of hanging ornaments pretty quickly. If we end up getting a live one this year, he can have the fun of sawing off portions of trunk to fit our ceiling height and then going over it with clippers to shape it up right. Even if we end up setting up our pre-lit artificial tree, he'll probably still find it a lot more invigorating than deciding which hand-made crocheted snowflake looks best next to the sequined musical note ornament.
3) Preparing the New-Years Bonfire - This one may not be applicable to everyone, but here in South Florida we like to ring in the new year with a nice marshmallow roast around our fire pit. Since they don't have to chop wood all year like boys did 100 years ago, they might relish the opportunity to wield an axe. Not to mention, they'll probably be pretty proud of their biceps afterward.
4) Making tin can luminaries - I remember doing this as a teenager. I also remember my brothers really enjoying it. I'll have to save some good sized cans. I think it will be worth the hassle of washing chili residue out if he gets to bang a nail through a piece of tin. He also might get a tiny kick out of lighting the candles, as it deals with more fire.
Well, that's the best I can do. If any of you, smarter, moms out there already have a list, send it my way. I'm all for conglomeration on these things.